boundaries: the secret ingredient for true spiritual growth
do you also read oracle cards? If you do you might want to know the #1 habit that may be keeping you playing small
or, perhaps your spiritual tool of choice is your pendulum. If so, do you know the #1 habit that quietly erodes your pendulum practice?
no matter what course you're following, I encourage you to enhance your studies and experience through meeting your inner guide
When we think about boundaries, we often picture saying no to things that drain us. And yet boundaries are just as much about saying yes; yes to the practices and spaces that truly nourish us.
Spiritual growth, like intuitive learning, isn’t about racing to the finish line. It’s about deepening into each step, each moment, each lesson. Yet without boundaries, the world’s noise seeps in - the notifications, the distractions, the pressure to move faster than your soul is ready for.
That’s why setting boundaries around your studies is an act of love.
It’s saying: this hour belongs to me.
It’s saying: I choose to honour my curiosity without rushing.
It’s saying: I am worthy of creating the conditions my growth needs to thrive.
Boundaries protect your learning space, and they also shape how you engage with it. When you give yourself permission to linger longer with one lesson, revisit an exercise, or journal more deeply on an insight, you build resilience and trust. You stop skimming, and start embodying.
A few simple ways to do this:
Put your phone in another room before you begin a lesson.
Let family or housemates know you’ll be “unavailable” for 30 minutes, just as you would in a work meeting.
Choose a small ritual (like lighting a candle or making tea) that signals to your mind and body: now I’m entering my learning space.
The result? Your intuition sharpens. Your practice deepens. And your spiritual growth takes root in a way that lasts, not because you consumed more, rather because you honoured what mattered most.
So the next time you feel the urge to rush through a course or squeeze your learning into the cracks of your day, pause. And ask yourself: what boundary would support me right now? Then lovingly put it in place.
Boundaries are not walls. They’re invitations. Invitations to create the sacred space where your transformation can truly unfold.